If the police arrested you after an argument with your partner, you may feel shocked and confused.
You might be thinking:
These feelings are completely understandable.
Many domestic violence arrests happen during emotional arguments between couples who do not see themselves as violent.
But once law enforcement is called, the situation is no longer just about the relationship — it becomes a legal matter.
In California, police officers are often required to follow mandatory arrest policies in domestic violence situations.
If officers observe:
They may feel legally obligated to make an arrest — even if both partners later say it was “just an argument.”
The purpose of these policies is to prevent escalation and protect potential victims.
This is one of the most common frustrations.
Many couples reconcile quickly after an argument.
Sometimes the person who called 911 regrets it.
However, officers are trained to assume that:
Because of this, the decision to arrest is often based on what officers observe at the scene — not what both parties say later.
Law enforcement does not decide cases based on whether the couple believes they are “good people.”
They look at:
If they believe there is probable cause, they may arrest one or both parties.
After that, the case is typically forwarded to the District Attorney — and prosecutors decide whether charges move forward.
The legal system focuses on the specific incident — not the overall quality of the relationship.
Many domestic violence arrests involve:
The system treats the incident as a potential crime, even if the relationship is otherwise healthy.
After an arrest:
Whether the case proceeds depends on the evidence — not just the couple’s reconciliation.
If you were arrested after a heated argument:
Instead, speak with an experienced criminal defense attorney who understands how domestic violence cases are handled in California.
If you are asking:
You deserve clear answers and steady guidance.
Contact Perliss Law Firm for a confidential consultation. We understand how complicated and personal these situations can be — and we approach them with discretion and strategic focus.
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